Planning to marry different race, family not fully supportive

Chinese-Indian couple here, married 7 years, two kids. It works beautifully but I wont lie, the first two years with the families were the hardest. What won my parents over was time and consistency, my partner showed up at every Chinese New Year reunion, learned to say a few words in Hokkien, helped my dad in the garden. Actions over arguments. On the practical stuff, sit down as a couple and decide clearly BEFORE marriage: which festivals you celebrate (we do both Deepavali and CNY, best of both worlds and the kids love it), how you raise the children, religion questions. Present a united, thought-through plan to both families so they see you are serious and responsible, not naive. The culture difference actually became our strength, our home is richer for it. Give your parents time, most hesitation is fear, and fear fades when they see your partner is a good person who respects them.